I had a rough life from the beginning that gave me outlooks and wisdom along with the ability to help others through difficult situations that is well above the level and guidance that I should be able to have. Words and ways of wise advisors who have spent time and studied for to get their level of expertise.. I was responsible for my own upbringing and education and figuring out how to be a productive and functional adult and mother. Surviving a madness of an 18 year marriage. By all accounts I should be a victim but I came out of all that with words and solutions along with insight well above my years or abilities with any kind of skills or education on the subjects.